On New Year’s Eve, we had a small get-together at our house. Just my immediate family and a few members of my son-in-law’s band (Stealth), gathered to bring in the new year. We were having a good time, when William (their drummer) and Vance (their bass player) decided to challenge me. Yup, that’s right. Those two big and burly guys wanted to challenge little ole’ me. They said having a black belt in martial arts really meant nothing when it came to size and brawn.
Now, I know better than to appease such idiotic challenges. When you hold a degreed black belt, you don’t mess around with it. But… I’m stupid, so, I took them on. Nothing elaborate, just them, one at a time, trying to attack me. They were taking it easy on me, I could tell. So I told them to bring it. I told them not to be afraid of hurting me. They laughed at that. Ha ha.
So, anyway, I kept blocking their clumsy punches, and dodging their full body tackles and so on for a while. Then, Mr. William decided to get fancy on me and try some sort of pseudo-martial arts technique of his. Then, wham! Kaboom! Williams “open handed karate chop” connected with my right palm and crr-aaa-ck. William went down yowling and howling and writhing on the floor. I just stood over him gaping. I swear my blood ran icy cold in my veins. I couldn’t believe what I had just done to the poor boy. I knew better, I should have taken more care, I should have let him hit me, but it was a matter of reflex action with me, and by the time my brain got the message that the kid was going to hurt himself, it was too late. Stupid, stupid, stupid! I felt more than bad, and the comments from the peanut gallery around me weren’t helping.
We took William to emergency and sure enough, his wrist was cracked. A mere fissure, but cracked nonetheless. I can’t even begin to tell you how awful I felt. Not just because I had hurt William, but because the band has a show at the Vampyre Club in Dallas next Saturday the 10th. William is their drummer, and without a drummer, they have no band.
Anyway, so I left William with the doctor and nurses while they set his wrist in a brace, and walked back to the waiting area where the rest of the gang was gathered. Just as I entered the room I heard them moaning and groaning about William not being able to play and yada yada. Then, the DQ, helpful as always, pipes up… “What about Mom?” The room went silent and they all turned to stare at me.
“What about, Mom”, I asked.
“You can take William’s place!” The DQ announced just a tad too loudly for my taste. Too much exuberance there.
“Oh, no, no, no, NO!” I refused to feel that guilty about the “accident”. I have a fear of being in crowded places. I fear people. I can’t play in front of strangers! I’d die! A slow, tortured death at that.
But the crowd was insistent. I’m a 55 year old granny! I don’t belong up on a stage with a bunch of 20 something guys! I’m not a professional! I’ve never played for money before! Ugghh.
They talked me into it. Or better said, they guilted me into accepting the position. One grandma drummer, coming right up.
So I’ve been sort of really busy the last few days. I only have approximately a week to learn their entire play list. They play and dress heavy metal. I don’t like heavy metal. I don’t have a thing to wear! But William assured me jeans and a t-shirt will do just fine. I’m thinking of buying black lipstick and nail polish. Maybe making my hair go all wild like the bride of Frankenstein, and wearing dangly rhinestone earrings while I’m at it. Also, I can borrow Alex’s collar and wear that, as well. Whattaya think?
So my days are now taken up with practice, practice, practice here at home, and then evenings over at the band’s practice studio with the rest of the crew. I’ve never felt so silly in all my life. I wonder how they’re going to bill me, or if they will go into the ghastly details of how I came to be there instead of William. Either way, I have a feeling it isn’t going to be a pretty show.
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